Unions for all; Marriages for the religious.

I had a conversation the other day with an older gay couple that helped me to stay solid and secure with my sexual ethics.  So many young people today will have sex with the first person that shows them some interest.  Some are addicted to sex and some have sex with people they don't even know.  Many people have done these things but I think we all know that it doesn't feel good.  A child will eat chocolate until he is sick and the adult will (usually) stop before that point.  As a musician I can sing a song a day and not really get deep into the music but if I have had that piece for a year, the depths cannot be taken away from that experience.  Relationships may not last forever but while they last you should take advantage of a growing and monogamous sex life.  You learn so many new things with the same person especially after the initial fear of vanities dissipates.  Once you realize that sexual beauty is a combination of energies that include respect, trust and the total opposite of fear, you will understand why people chose to get married and stay married.  This is a beautiful coexistence for people wether they are straight or gay.  Please allow me to share in a bond of trust with another human being.  Give all people a union that wants one and let the religious get married in their churches without the word keeping us from something that should legally be given.